It’s literally so annoying hear 15 year olds and younger complain about being virgins and haven’t been kissed. It shows how sexualized society is and how much pressure young teens get for not doing these things. And it’s just so funny to me because you know the people who are mostly forcing them? Grown people. Grown people show it and advertise it in teen shows with actors who are 37 and have these baby teens feeling inadequate about themselves because they aren’t doing what “teenagers should be doing”. And saying things like “you haven’t dated yet?”, “you haven’t kiss yet?”, “you haven’t had sex yet?” to 15 year olds! And I have to say that’s not normal, it’s not normal for a 13-15 year old teenager to feel sad about not having sex. It’s just uncomfortable in my opinion. And I know I have really young followers too, so I’m just gonna tell you, you are not NOT normal for not having sex, not dating, not being kissed, not doing anything intimate at all. You are still so young, don’t feel the pressure from society. Just focus on you and forget about anyone else. And that is hard, but think of it as a “at least it wasn’t me” thing when you see the worse situations happen possible when you see people in relationships. It’s okay.
I’m tired of counting calories and feeling guilty when I eat. I just want to enjoy food and feel free.
(via fedis-coffee)
When you have an eating disorder, a grain of rice in your mouth can feel like a mountain under your feet.
An addict of the scales. no pipes between your lips or snow flurries blowing through your nose.
You’ll never love a high the way you love the lowering numbers on your gym’s scales.
Two, four, six, twenty pounds down and your spine hits the wall, your body is collapsing under it’s dwindling weight.
Compliments become comments of concern.
Painted nails chip and crack from the pressure you’ve placed on your fragile hands, hammers on a porcelain doll.
Sleeping car tires driving over the pot holes you once used to look at the healthy stranger that’s moved away.
Handfuls of the hair your mother put into two braids on your first day of kindergarten.
Don’t kiss the cracking lips, the craving lips, the never caving lips of a food fearing body.
Carry your weapons close.
Release your bullets into the air that’s barely lighter than the skin and bones you call your shelter.
You’ll know war your entire life.
You’ll fight your entire life.
When You Have An Eating Disorder - tcm (via riotdietproject)
To all the people who are starving themselves and scrolling through Tumblr right now just to distract themselves from food cravings:
You are beautiful.
You are loved.
You are necessary.
You deserve nourishment.
“ Core Strength ”.
“ Core & Cardio - 30 min Workout ”
“ Sexy Legs - Home Workout ”
Imagine how many story plots would be severely altered if men were as easily distracted from their tasks by women’s knees, shoulders, elbows, existence in general, as they seem to be according to the American education system and its dress codes. “I have to throw this ring into the fires of Mordor because the fate of Middle Earth depends on—oh shIT AN ELF ANKLE I CAN’T GO ON CARRY ME SAMWISE”
To all my fat girls with eating disorders:
- Your pain is not less valid if you are fat
- Your eating disorder is still real
- You deserve to eat regularly
- I believe you
- Fat is not a bad word
- I love you
Affirmation
Celebrating the world we have created for ourselves.
By Jasmine Weber.
